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5'5" with a little attitude. Redhead, pale skin, freckles, tattoos and piercings. Love to laugh, orgasm, and be used rough.
Female (40) Des Moines, Iowa
Feminine, traditional with a modern touch.. Active, fit, with a flair for adventure. Educated, very curious and open minded. Passionate about life and what makes it worthwhile. I'm not mass produced. i think they stopped manufacturing my kind... & Yes i love bj-j lol *WANTED, not needed* a gym and food buddy... Someone to watch comedy shows,concerts & movies with. *not looking for online dynamics & endless chatting* *Prefer A monogamous hetero, non toxic masculine male who can carry a conversation & knows how to have fun outside the bedroom* PS boys, pls skip my profile 😉 NO TO Couples, those in relationships / Married
Female (42) Des Moines, Iowa
Chaos wrapped in silk. Pretty eyes. Smart mouth. Soft center. I look innocent until I’m not. Equal parts nurturing and dangerous. I’m the type of woman who will stare into your soul while making you laugh hard enough to forget your own name. I’m drawn to confidence, emotional intelligence, tension, teasing banter, deep late-night conversations, and chemistry that feels electric the second it walks into the room. I like people who can lead without trying to control everything. Energy matters. Loyalty matters more. I attract people with unresolved issues and somehow become their favorite person. Dangerous chemistry, playful power dynamics, obsession-level affection, magnetic eye contact, rough edges mixed with soft moments… yeah, that’s my language. If you’re fake, manipulative, or emotionally unavailable, keep scrolling. But if you can make me laugh, calm my nervous system, challenge my mind, and match my intensity without ***… you already have my attention.
Female (37) Des Moines, Iowa
24 Engaged to my fiance in an IRL polyquad relationship shorty is my fet wife💜💜 not looking for anything more right now!! just friends and friends only. AGAIN DONT DM ME I am a sub, and brat I HAVE A HUGEEEE VOICE KINK. I do not dm randoms so please don’t push me too. This is my own rule and boundary I have set strictly for myself. THAT MEANS DONT DM ME❤️ If you are against bbw please don’t bother messaging me. Keep it friendly in group chats or you’ll be the next contestant on the block list lol FAQ Wanna see my pp? -Nah. go show your mom
Female (24) Des Moines, Iowa
Hey there, welcome to my space. I'm single and crave casual encounters. I have an extremely high sex drive and aim to have as many play partners as I can. I crave being roughly used followed by sweet aftercare. I like having my face slapped and being spat on during the act. I also really enjoy being degraded, mocked, and ridiculed. I absolutely adore mind fucks. I want to feel like you need this as much as I do. Make me believe you need my body. I don't mesh well with pleasure doms, or vanilla doms. I prefer my play partners have a sadistic streak. I CAN NOT HOST I have many fetishes. I have done a bit of nearly everything, but these are my favorite. Group play MFM FMF Impact Play *** *** Hucow Breath play Male Authority Fisting As a general rule, I tend to steer clear of: Single men or women who are new to the lifestyle Couples who are new to the lifestyle Couples who are looking for a unicorn Couples Fake Doms (I can tell REALLY easily) ***agers (no matter what) Men who absolutely beg me to peg them Anyone who's not age 25-50, doesn't have a current STD screening, or is really pushy. No thanks. Find me on Fetlife under the same name.
Female (36) Des Moines, Iowa
black or Latino men only please. be somewhat close. abt 2 hours of des moines would fit me best why doesn't anyone have photos up on their profiles!? I'm 42 single lady and i live in des moines iowa. very blue collar. Looking for a Strong Daddy type. let's go out for a drink and see what happens! Please don't just ask me to come over and fukk. I'm not interested in men that are gay, bi, or into trans. also not gay or bi. no women at all or couples. if u want to see more of me follow below 😉 https://***/Linzroxxx or https://onlyfans.com/linzroxxx
Female (42) Des Moines, Iowa
Hey babes I’m new to the scene looking to have some fun 💕 i’m single and open to alot. Message me maybe we can get into something 😉
Female (20) Des Moines, Iowa
I’m a nerdy gamer girl new to mostly everything. I am a sub looking for a monogamous relationship with a dom. I love voice notes. If you look and act like Gale Dekarios, you’re 100% my type.
Female (34) Des Moines, Iowa
Mostly looking for a guy that doesn't mind sharing me with another guy. I prefer threesomes. Would love to find a cool chick to surprise my favorite fuck buddy with too. Really only looking for local, endless pic exchange bores me.
Female (43) Des Moines, Iowa
I’m a single mom. I turn 45 in May. Looking for new experiences and opportunities. I want to have fun and learn new things about myself. Also looking for someone to open me up to find my true self. Only looking for men in the Des Moines, Iowa area.
Female (44) Des Moines, Iowa
I’m not here for quick thrills or meaningless conversations. I’m drawn to slow tension, genuine chemistry, teasing, affection, and the kind of connection that stays on your mind even after the conversation ends. I’m Ashleigh, 19 (my profile says 27 because of a mistake I haven’t fixed yet). I’m soft, playful, sensual, and naturally dominant in a way that feels more addictive than ***ful. I love gaming, music, late night conversations, dim lighting, and building real chemistry with someone who enjoys both emotional intimacy and submission. I’m into teasing, praise, control, edging, collars, ropes, lingerie, possessiveness, aftercare, and especially the psychological side of power exchange. I prefer dynamics that feel genuine and immersive rather than rushed or surface level. If you message me, please introduce yourself properly instead of just saying “hi.” Tell me a bit about who you are, what drew you to message me, and what exactly you’re looking for so I can understand your intentions from the beginning. Low effort or shallow messages will most likely be ignored. Lastly, I’m heavily into women as well, so if you’re submissive and genuinely interested in building something meaningful, don’t hesitate to message me ♡
Female (27) Des Moines, Iowa
straight single mom, work full time. own my own home. love to cook and bake. love camping and being outdoors.
Female (43) Des Moines, Iowa
I am a submissive fully and I like a lot of different kinky things especially enjoy bondage and more rough play but nothing with ***. in a relationship I'm looking for someone that is going to be dominant over me but also let me have my own things because in my non kinky life I'm very independent. I'm looking for a relationship with just one person but not against having threesomes or having someone occasionally for fun. Interested in joining in on couple play if any couples would like a third submissive female to join them. I also love cuddling anytime and all the time. Interested in joining in on couple play if any couples would like a third submissive female to join them. I do a lot of reading. I read pretty much anything I definitely read a lot of smut. I love ***s. I have had my cat since I was 14 years old and he is a very important part of my life. I like both going out and staying home. I would love to go on cute little dates and maybe have a fun night after words. if there is anything you want to know just ask me. I would love to hear from you and maybe have a good time. PS if you have a pet and have any pictures I would love to see them.
Female (21) Des Moines, Iowa
*Don’t be a creep if your 40+ don’t message me *I can’t host* *Look for in person, not only online Big fan of deep conversations, good books, and making people laugh. You’ll usually find me reading, watching something, or making food. I’ve got a bit of a stubborn streak, but if you know how to handle a brat, we’ll get along just fine—especially if you’re good at giving praise.
Female (21) Des Moines, Iowa
here for fun. if we vibe, we vibe. I am a content creator so if you are too & you is a girl 🥺,, hmu & maybe we coule collab? (side note. would love to make some little/middle friends)
Female (23) Des Moines, Iowa
Quiet creative type. Always thinking. I love ***ting, birdwatching, and my cat. I'm looking for a woman who will love me for who I am and fulfill my fantasies.
Female (27) Des Moines, Iowa
I wanna explore this part of myself **Desires and Fantasies** I enjoy praiseor being degraded, restraints, collars, I love to please. I have too many fantasies to list.. I'd love to dress up like a kitty and be a pet or cosplay\rp and other things. I love to be submissive but I want to try other things too.
Female (26) Des Moines, Iowa
Adventure time is here and I am carefully exploring. I am a mom, collector of things. A cancer sign, Irish temper that I've heard causes brattiness and ADHD. LG looking for her DD. I am the monogamous only type. Learning as I go :)
Female (38) Des Moines, Iowa
i am a shortish bisexual woman i do have a man we are looking to experiment with another female weather that be me watching you too or all of us in on the fun if you want to know more lets chat 😊
Female (27) Des Moines, Iowa
Wanna try something different? 5'5 225 Cannabis industry veteran. Ignorant city girl who loves the great indoors and doesn't like sports or traveling. Rebuilding and searching for my people. Fixed w/ 1 child. Hippy Goth Buddhist Poly swinger Practicing effective communication, conflict resolution and emotional regulation are my jams. Kind, intelligent, open minded, submissive, playful, positive, consistent. Certifiably Insane, but I use my powers for good instead of evil. Must love sluts!
Female (35) Des Moines, Iowa
I am a walking oxymoron! I definitely have a big and loud personality, but I can be very quiet and reflective. I love power games and being teased. I love to be a brat and push boundaries. I am a big believer in a partnership and making major choices and decisions together. I want a partner who will dance in the rain with me.
Female (31) West Des Moines, Iowa
Hello! I don’t usually go on dating sites, but I’ve had no luck IRL meeting a Dom. I am looking for a serious long term relationship and I am monogamous. I don’t have a lot of IRL experience but I can make up for that! Also outside of Kink I am very nerdy; I like anime, video games, manga, sci-fi, horror, and a lot of other nerdy stuff. I also have two cats.
Female (24) Des Moines, Iowa
into the hot-wife lifestyle . I have a partner who likes to watch me with others, and join in. I like cream pies and oral. we both are switches and like some mild role playing
Female (48) Des Moines, Iowa

New members in Des Moines

5'5" with a little attitude. Redhead, pale skin, freckles, tattoos and piercings. Love to laugh, orgasm, and be used rough.
Female (40) Des Moines, Iowa
Hey babes I’m new to the scene looking to have some fun 💕 i’m single and open to alot. Message me maybe we can get into something 😉
Female (20) Des Moines, Iowa
Feminine, traditional with a modern touch.. Active, fit, with a flair for adventure. Educated, very curious and open minded. Passionate about life and what makes it worthwhile. I'm not mass produced. i think they stopped manufacturing my kind... & Yes i love bj-j lol *WANTED, not needed* a gym and food buddy... Someone to watch comedy shows,concerts & movies with. *not looking for online dynamics & endless chatting* *Prefer A monogamous hetero, non toxic masculine male who can carry a conversation & knows how to have fun outside the bedroom* PS boys, pls skip my profile 😉 NO TO Couples, those in relationships / Married
Female (42) Des Moines, Iowa
Chaos wrapped in silk. Pretty eyes. Smart mouth. Soft center. I look innocent until I’m not. Equal parts nurturing and dangerous. I’m the type of woman who will stare into your soul while making you laugh hard enough to forget your own name. I’m drawn to confidence, emotional intelligence, tension, teasing banter, deep late-night conversations, and chemistry that feels electric the second it walks into the room. I like people who can lead without trying to control everything. Energy matters. Loyalty matters more. I attract people with unresolved issues and somehow become their favorite person. Dangerous chemistry, playful power dynamics, obsession-level affection, magnetic eye contact, rough edges mixed with soft moments… yeah, that’s my language. If you’re fake, manipulative, or emotionally unavailable, keep scrolling. But if you can make me laugh, calm my nervous system, challenge my mind, and match my intensity without ***… you already have my attention.
Female (37) Des Moines, Iowa
Hello! I don’t usually go on dating sites, but I’ve had no luck IRL meeting a Dom. I am looking for a serious long term relationship and I am monogamous. I don’t have a lot of IRL experience but I can make up for that! Also outside of Kink I am very nerdy; I like anime, video games, manga, sci-fi, horror, and a lot of other nerdy stuff. I also have two cats.
Female (24) Des Moines, Iowa
I want to be in control. Nurture you.. explore you.. and then dispose of you.
Female (30) West Des Moines, Iowa
Hey there, welcome to my space. I'm single and crave casual encounters. I have an extremely high sex drive and aim to have as many play partners as I can. I crave being roughly used followed by sweet aftercare. I like having my face slapped and being spat on during the act. I also really enjoy being degraded, mocked, and ridiculed. I absolutely adore mind fucks. I want to feel like you need this as much as I do. Make me believe you need my body. I don't mesh well with pleasure doms, or vanilla doms. I prefer my play partners have a sadistic streak. I CAN NOT HOST I have many fetishes. I have done a bit of nearly everything, but these are my favorite. Group play MFM FMF Impact Play *** *** Hucow Breath play Male Authority Fisting As a general rule, I tend to steer clear of: Single men or women who are new to the lifestyle Couples who are new to the lifestyle Couples who are looking for a unicorn Couples Fake Doms (I can tell REALLY easily) ***agers (no matter what) Men who absolutely beg me to peg them Anyone who's not age 25-50, doesn't have a current STD screening, or is really pushy. No thanks. Find me on Fetlife under the same name.
Female (36) Des Moines, Iowa
Mostly looking for a guy that doesn't mind sharing me with another guy. I prefer threesomes. Would love to find a cool chick to surprise my favorite fuck buddy with too. Really only looking for local, endless pic exchange bores me.
Female (43) Des Moines, Iowa
I’m a single mom. I turn 45 in May. Looking for new experiences and opportunities. I want to have fun and learn new things about myself. Also looking for someone to open me up to find my true self. Only looking for men in the Des Moines, Iowa area.
Female (44) Des Moines, Iowa
Wine and dine and you just might get dessert 🐈 My dream date is a Tattoo date😍 NOT looking for anything serious atm I do spicys so if that bothers you please dont add or add back
Female (21) Des Moines, Iowa
Wanna try something different? 5'5 225 Cannabis industry veteran. Ignorant city girl who loves the great indoors and doesn't like sports or traveling. Rebuilding and searching for my people. Fixed w/ 1 child. Hippy Goth Buddhist Poly swinger Practicing effective communication, conflict resolution and emotional regulation are my jams. Kind, intelligent, open minded, submissive, playful, positive, consistent. Certifiably Insane, but I use my powers for good instead of evil. Must love sluts!
Female (35) Des Moines, Iowa
I’m a nerdy gamer girl new to mostly everything. I am a sub looking for a monogamous relationship with a dom. I love voice notes. If you look and act like Gale Dekarios, you’re 100% my type.
Female (34) Des Moines, Iowa
Quiet creative type. Always thinking. I love ***ting, birdwatching, and my cat. I'm looking for a woman who will love me for who I am and fulfill my fantasies.
Female (27) Des Moines, Iowa
I am a walking oxymoron! I definitely have a big and loud personality, but I can be very quiet and reflective. I love power games and being teased. I love to be a brat and push boundaries. I am a big believer in a partnership and making major choices and decisions together. I want a partner who will dance in the rain with me.
Female (31) West Des Moines, Iowa
I’m not here for quick thrills or meaningless conversations. I’m drawn to slow tension, genuine chemistry, teasing, affection, and the kind of connection that stays on your mind even after the conversation ends. I’m Ashleigh, 19 (my profile says 27 because of a mistake I haven’t fixed yet). I’m soft, playful, sensual, and naturally dominant in a way that feels more addictive than ***ful. I love gaming, music, late night conversations, dim lighting, and building real chemistry with someone who enjoys both emotional intimacy and submission. I’m into teasing, praise, control, edging, collars, ropes, lingerie, possessiveness, aftercare, and especially the psychological side of power exchange. I prefer dynamics that feel genuine and immersive rather than rushed or surface level. If you message me, please introduce yourself properly instead of just saying “hi.” Tell me a bit about who you are, what drew you to message me, and what exactly you’re looking for so I can understand your intentions from the beginning. Low effort or shallow messages will most likely be ignored. Lastly, I’m heavily into women as well, so if you’re submissive and genuinely interested in building something meaningful, don’t hesitate to message me ♡
Female (27) Des Moines, Iowa
here for fun. if we vibe, we vibe. I am a content creator so if you are too & you is a girl 🥺,, hmu & maybe we coule collab? (side note. would love to make some little/middle friends)
Female (23) Des Moines, Iowa
straight single mom, work full time. own my own home. love to cook and bake. love camping and being outdoors.
Female (43) Des Moines, Iowa
24 Engaged to my fiance in an IRL polyquad relationship shorty is my fet wife💜💜 not looking for anything more right now!! just friends and friends only. AGAIN DONT DM ME I am a sub, and brat I HAVE A HUGEEEE VOICE KINK. I do not dm randoms so please don’t push me too. This is my own rule and boundary I have set strictly for myself. THAT MEANS DONT DM ME❤️ If you are against bbw please don’t bother messaging me. Keep it friendly in group chats or you’ll be the next contestant on the block list lol FAQ Wanna see my pp? -Nah. go show your mom
Female (24) Des Moines, Iowa
into the hot-wife lifestyle . I have a partner who likes to watch me with others, and join in. I like cream pies and oral. we both are switches and like some mild role playing
Female (48) Des Moines, Iowa
looking for a female dom willing to treat me like a princess for once! Very big on primal play soooooo, take me out into the woods for a cute picnic and a hard fuck😘
Female (22) Des Moines, Iowa
black or Latino men only please. be somewhat close. abt 2 hours of des moines would fit me best why doesn't anyone have photos up on their profiles!? I'm 42 single lady and i live in des moines iowa. very blue collar. Looking for a Strong Daddy type. let's go out for a drink and see what happens! Please don't just ask me to come over and fukk. I'm not interested in men that are gay, bi, or into trans. also not gay or bi. no women at all or couples. if u want to see more of me follow below 😉 https://***/Linzroxxx or https://onlyfans.com/linzroxxx
Female (42) Des Moines, Iowa
I am a submissive fully and I like a lot of different kinky things especially enjoy bondage and more rough play but nothing with ***. in a relationship I'm looking for someone that is going to be dominant over me but also let me have my own things because in my non kinky life I'm very independent. I'm looking for a relationship with just one person but not against having threesomes or having someone occasionally for fun. Interested in joining in on couple play if any couples would like a third submissive female to join them. I also love cuddling anytime and all the time. Interested in joining in on couple play if any couples would like a third submissive female to join them. I do a lot of reading. I read pretty much anything I definitely read a lot of smut. I love ***s. I have had my cat since I was 14 years old and he is a very important part of my life. I like both going out and staying home. I would love to go on cute little dates and maybe have a fun night after words. if there is anything you want to know just ask me. I would love to hear from you and maybe have a good time. PS if you have a pet and have any pictures I would love to see them.
Female (21) Des Moines, Iowa
*Don’t be a creep if your 40+ don’t message me *I can’t host* *Look for in person, not only online Big fan of deep conversations, good books, and making people laugh. You’ll usually find me reading, watching something, or making food. I’ve got a bit of a stubborn streak, but if you know how to handle a brat, we’ll get along just fine—especially if you’re good at giving praise.
Female (21) Des Moines, Iowa

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